Pal Pal Dil Ke Paas...

To someone really close
Pal Pal.. Dil Ke Paas... Tum Rehti Ho

Jeevan Meethi Pyaas... Yeh Kehti Ho
Pal Pal.. Dil Ke Paas... Tum Rehti Ho

Har Shyam Aankhon Par
Tera Aanchal Lehraye
Har Raat Yaadon Ki
Baarat Le Aaye......

Maein Saans Leta Hoon
Teri Khushboo Aati Hai
Ek Mehka Mehka Sa
Paigham Laati Hai
Meri Dil Ki Dhadkan Bhi
Tere Geet Gaati Hai

Pal Pal ...

Tum Sochogi Kyon Itna
Maein Tumse Pyaar Karoon
Tum Samjhogi Deewana
Maein Bhi Iqraar Karoon

Dewaanon Ki Yeh Baatein
Deewane Jaante Hain
Jalne Mei Kya Mazaa Hai
Parwanr Jaante Hain
Tum Yunhi Jalaate Rehna
Aa Aakar Khwabon Mein

Pal Pal ...

Kel Tujhko Dekha Tha
Maine Aapne Aangan Mein
Jaise Keh Rahi Thi Tum
Mujhe Baandhlo Bandhan Mein

Yeh Kaisa Rishta Hai
Yeh Kaise Sapney Hai
Begaane Ho Ker Bhi
Kyu Lagte Aapne Hai
Mai Sooch MEin Rehta Hoon
Daar Daar ke Kehta Hoon

Pal Pal... Dil Ke Paas ..... Tum Rehti Ho

Women | Genocide

Why its so inhuman with the women?
Every society existing on the face of earth has always treated women as a object. No matter which religion it is; the ethics are always too tough on women. India is a land where people feel proud of their religion and culture. From the start India has a male dominated society where the place for women is in their homes. At start women were not allowed to move out of their houses for work. Its only the man in the family who should work and earn, where as the woman should cook and serve the family. Men still take women as their belongings, they treat them like slaves.

For now the conditions may have changed or can say improved a bit but, still they don't have a proper place in society. Still today post marital affairs for a man is considered okey, where as for a woman its taboo. Why this difference? wrong must be treated wrong for everyone in the society but, thats not the case.

What I feel sad is that, still today women haven't realised this genocide and if anyone has then they still feel afraid of raising their voices. Marriage is a custom which is done across world and in every society. Marriage decisions are are still a man's selection process. A father decides whom his daughter should marry (bride's side) and the boy has the selection right (groom's side). Girls who marry against their father's decision are taken as a sinners. And girls who marry thier father's decision are supposed to be well cultered. No matter how bad the main man in the family behaves, he should be respected. Womens are generally kept away from decision making.

So where did all this started, where is all this rooted?
Our society is based on the morals of our religion. Basically, our present attitude towards women streams from our religious scriptures which refer to women as contempt.

Islam treats women as slaves. All the rights over a woman lays with the man to which she belongs. Women are men's possessions.
The very basic relationship between man/woman in Islam widely practiced and strongly/clearly defined is: -
1. Men are guaranteed a higher degree of right over women.
2. Man can have more then one wife.
3. Man can divorce a woman just by saying "talak" three times for no reason.
4. A woman once divorced has to get divorced from another man so as to reunite with her previous husband.
5. Men have authority over women on account of God given qualities with which he is to excel over her.
6. Women are deficit in many ways. (Sahi Bokhari, many Hadises).

Hinduism isn't also that good.
Oldest book are the 'Vedas' which contain highly objectionable and condemnable passages concerning women.
1. 'Sati pratha' (custom of burning the widow with the body of her husband)
2. 'Dasi Pratha' (keeping the slave girls)
3. 'Niyog Pratha' (ancient Aryan custom of childless widow or women having sexual intercourse with a man other than husband to beget child)
4. Birth of a girl is still not appreciate.
5. Married woman should wear a necklace (mangal-sutra) to show she is married, whereas a man has do nothing.
These are among cruel customs responsible for the plight of the women.

The norms are always set against women.

Birth of GOD

This is my own way of speaking about the origin of religious beliefs. This article doesn't point out to any specific religion.
When ever the topic of existence of GOD is put to debate it always leads to an unending argument between the people who believe and those who don't.

World without religions and castes...

Todays world is growing worst day by day. Everyone is going selfish and immoral.
Humanity has gone out of sight. Well if this keeps on going there no turning back afterwards. Humans were supposed to be the most intellegent species on the face of the Earth, but we actually misused our brains.
We look up to a person looking at his wealth, fame, and social status. We have started judging people based on their religion and caste. Our religious sentiments have turned us into a very "not-so-human" thing.

What has religion and caste given us?
In far back time people used to live in groups so as to survive, and there was no religion and no caste for them. Today as we see there are many cultures, many religions and many castes world wide. We try to seperate ourselves based on religion and caste. As a person from India I come across various people and various castes. And as resident of Bombay; its a mixed culture over here. But I have seen Bombay broken apart in the 90's, and the cause was religious riots. Well who and which caste was responsible doesn't matter because everyone was devasted. People take advantage of religious aspects and cause trouble. Common people suffer. Well its the common people who take their religious aspects so important that anyone can easily take advantage of it. Well talking about religious roits Bombay blasts is not the only case; Ayodhya riots, Babri mosque, Godhra carnage and many more. Many of them remain undisclosed.

Proud to be Hindu

Untouchability in practice; some real life examples:

From The Economist, June 8th 1991: An attempt by a group of Harijans (untouchables) to enter an historic Hindu temple at the holy town of Nathdwara in Rajasthan state failed on Monday evening when high caste priests and others beat them back with sticks, injuring at least six.

From Financial Times, 6 October 1988: In a village 100 miles from Delhi, villagers hanged and then threw on to a fire a girl and two boys; the boys had first been tortured, while their fathers made to watch, and one of them and the girl had still been alive when put in fire. They had managed to crawl out, but were thrown back. The girl, from the powerful Jat caste, had tried to elope with one of the boys, assisted by his friend; both were untouchables, a group so low they are not even on the bottom rung of the caste ladder. Not long before, in three villages in the state of Bihar, the huts of 400-odd families of untouchables were burnt down by gangs working for the local landowning caste, because they were demanding the legal minimum wage, 16 rupees (78 cents) a day.

From The Economist June 8th 1991: At school Harijans are often made to sit on the floor; in some villages they have to take off their shoes while walking past upper-caste houses, and are usually banned from drawing water from the village well for fear they will pollute it. A Brahmin on a packed bus cannot hop off and bathe six times each time he fears the shadow of an untouchable has fallen on him.

Arab News, August l0, 1991: Twenty Harijans (untouchables) have been hacked to death in a village in southern India by high caste Hindus and their bodies thrown into a nearby canal, news papers reports said. The Statesman said the incident occurred on Tuesday at Tsundur village near Guntur town in Andhra Pradesh state. Other reports said a group of Harijans were attacked by deadly weapons while trying to flee across marshes. A police picked in the village remained passive to the gruesome murders, The Hindu newspaper said. The incident had its origins in an incident that occurred about a month back in a local cinema hall. A Harijan boy watching a movie stretched himself and his leg accidentally touched a high-caste boy sitting in the next seat. Soon there was an altercation between them. The Hindus took this as an affront on their authority. They summoned the teacher-father of the Harijan boy and held him hostage until they caught hold of the boy and beat him. After this, other minor incidents between the two groups snowballed and finally led to arson and mayhem. The southern Indian incident comes three weeks after two lower caste youths and a 15-year old upper caste girl were publicly hanged by their own fathers goaded by a vigilante mob in a north Indian village. They were punished for defying the Hindu social code barring inter-caste marriage.

Arab News, March 31 1991: In 1989, the national government (of India) recorded 14,269 cases of atrocities committed against outcastes, including 479 murders and 759 rapes.

Dalit Voice: Jagjivan Ram (former Union Minister of India) with all power and wealth at his command was made to know that his social status was not even equal to the poorest and uneducated Brahmin of India. When he visited Varanasi on invitation and garlanded the statue of Sampurnanand (a Kayasth), the statue was washed with Gangajal (sacred water of the Ganges) and mantras were recited to make it 'pure' as the touch of a SC (untouchable) had desecrated the stone Statue.

Dalits and Hinduism: In Kerala, Namboodiri Brahmins till very recently were compelling 'low caste' women not to wear blouses lest they should appear as high caste. The result was that these women had to go bare-breasted which was condemned by all civilized nations.

Some recent examples of caste-based atrocities was published by the Indian Express (June 24, 1995): A Scheduled Tribe woman, Prakash Kaur, was most painfully murdered in a village in Maharashtra province in May, 1995. Brutes from the Aryan Hindus (l) dragged her to the village temple; (2) shaved her head; (3) beat her with sticks, (4) inserted a stick into her private parts; (5) blackened her face; (6) put her on a donkey and paraded her in the market; and (7) continued to beat her till she died. When the dying woman asked for water, the killers poured hot water and kerosene in her mouth. Her only offence (?) was that her 12-year old son had entered the local Hindu temple. (See, what a "peaceful" religion I have !) The place where the incident took place is very close to the local police station. The more painful aspect of the incident is that when the Home Minister of the state was contacted by the All India Democratic Women's Association, he refused to take any action in the matter saying that it was not a murder but a "reflection of mob anger".

Another recent example of caste-based atrocities was published by the Times of India in its issue of 18 January 1997:: A 41-year old low-caste women was stripped and paraded naked through a village near Muradabad town (U.P.). Her only offence (?) was that her son had, allegedly, made a silly comment on a girl who was a High caste Hindu. The woman cried for help but none dared to come to her aid.

The racial atrocities meted out by the arrogant caste or Aryan Hindus to the underprivileged people have no parallel in modern world. The above instances are only few of such incidents presented to indicate how peaceful Hindu religion is in general. Well I have nothing against any religion, but is this what our religions are made for?

Think again was RELIGION and CASTE really needed!